Pika...
2010-04-12, 02:40 AM
Hi,
This is a long story, and it is 3:12am here and I have not slept in two days, so sorry for the bad grammar/etc.
So long story short is that the transgender soon to be father of my offspring (they are one of the couples I will be helping, and who want me in the kid's life) is at the deathbed of his grandmather who raised him, was like family to his wife, and from what I have been told is/was very supportive of him (formerly her).
The guy is from a poor family to the point that they could not afford to fly him over there. I put my own credit on the line to get him there, and now will be doing more so to get her there because he is falling apart.
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Anyway, midway through typing this message she heard back that they got the parent/grandparent on some meds which will buy her some time. Possibly even a few weeks!
I was so happy for them.
However, the Mrs. asked me to see if either way I could help her in attempting to gather his surgery funds/surgery money by the time he comes home. In her own words 'It's what his grandma would have wanted." when she thought there was (or there really wasn't) almost no time left.
Anyway, I am both tired and emotionally saddened a bit (and guilty for not helping her there sooner) so I will update this message in the morning (afternoon perhaps if I wake up later). What I would really like to know if there are any ways you folks could suggest of making up this money (and no, my local bank+mask is not an option here). I remember seeing around the next a signature by multiple people asking for donations to get a friend in/through school. Would that be feasible? It's the only thing I can come up with to be honest.
Thank you so much in advance!!!
This is a long story, and it is 3:12am here and I have not slept in two days, so sorry for the bad grammar/etc.
So long story short is that the transgender soon to be father of my offspring (they are one of the couples I will be helping, and who want me in the kid's life) is at the deathbed of his grandmather who raised him, was like family to his wife, and from what I have been told is/was very supportive of him (formerly her).
The guy is from a poor family to the point that they could not afford to fly him over there. I put my own credit on the line to get him there, and now will be doing more so to get her there because he is falling apart.
...
......
.........
Anyway, midway through typing this message she heard back that they got the parent/grandparent on some meds which will buy her some time. Possibly even a few weeks!
I was so happy for them.
However, the Mrs. asked me to see if either way I could help her in attempting to gather his surgery funds/surgery money by the time he comes home. In her own words 'It's what his grandma would have wanted." when she thought there was (or there really wasn't) almost no time left.
Anyway, I am both tired and emotionally saddened a bit (and guilty for not helping her there sooner) so I will update this message in the morning (afternoon perhaps if I wake up later). What I would really like to know if there are any ways you folks could suggest of making up this money (and no, my local bank+mask is not an option here). I remember seeing around the next a signature by multiple people asking for donations to get a friend in/through school. Would that be feasible? It's the only thing I can come up with to be honest.
Thank you so much in advance!!!