Incarnum Help!

[SamsDisciple]

I have never used incarnum before but it seems really cool. What I need help with is whether or not I could use incarnum as a controller type or maybe just be able to boost skills from previous classes. I am currently doing gestalt and realized that rogue just doesn't fit with the character but the fluff from incarnum could work perfectly, the main class is a homebrew version of an earthbender from avatar that does all its actions skill based.

[Psyren]

Incarnates can do just about anything, including controller or skillmonkey. Totemists can be just about any monster. Here, read this. (http://brilliantgameologists.com/boards/index.php?topic=6920.0)

[awa]

i had a two level totmist dip for a stealth character that can mean with the right meld a +8 bonus to hide and move silently which can be improved to +10 at 6th level