onemorelurker
2012-04-15, 10:11 PM
Here's my situation, in brief:
The group in which I play recently got a new member, a drow wizard. Because we have quite a lot of wealth for a 7th-level party, the DM told New Guy that he could make his character with unlimited wealth. She also didn't make him show her his character sheet, though I believe he gave her a list of the items he bought.
In short, New Guy's character is by far the most powerful person in the party, to the point where I strongly suspect he could kill the rest of us if he wanted to, and am about 80% he will try to do so at some point. Last session--the first session he played with us--he ended up dominating the whole party, which included either misinterpreting or intentionally lying about part of an item's effect (and it turned out that he had purposefully omitted this item from the list he gave the DM; she says she wouldn't've allowed it if she'd known). After that session, I talked to the DM about how only getting to do things on another person's say-so was not my idea of fun. The other players felt similarly, so the DM un-mind-controlled us via deus ex machina, which New Guy was very sporting about.
This session, we went to the Demonweb Pits in a heavily-modified version of the 3.5 Expedition to the Demonweb Pits. Because New Guy's character is from a high-ranking drow family, he ended up leading us around--the DM showed him a map of the module since "he would know," and the rest of us have been told that if we touch anything we're not supposed to, Lolth (or at least high-level NPCs) will eat us. Essentially, it was Everyone Does What New Guy Says v2.0, except that instead of mind control, we have the threat of getting curbstomped.
This is still not my idea of fun. What can I do? I'm not I'm not sure talking to the DM again would help, because last time she only dealt with the immediate problem rather than the underlying one (and I'm not sure it's fair to ask New Guy to stop having his fun in exchange for me having fun again). On the other hand, I've been playing with this party for a while, and I don't want to let them down by quitting.
The other thing is that we probably only have one session left--we're a college group that doesn't meet every week, and I'm graduating at the end of this semester. Should I just tough it out for one more session, even though I'm not having fun? The party sort of needs my character to be there (she's our only serious damage-dealer), but they don't necessarily need me, since she's not super-complicated.
The group in which I play recently got a new member, a drow wizard. Because we have quite a lot of wealth for a 7th-level party, the DM told New Guy that he could make his character with unlimited wealth. She also didn't make him show her his character sheet, though I believe he gave her a list of the items he bought.
In short, New Guy's character is by far the most powerful person in the party, to the point where I strongly suspect he could kill the rest of us if he wanted to, and am about 80% he will try to do so at some point. Last session--the first session he played with us--he ended up dominating the whole party, which included either misinterpreting or intentionally lying about part of an item's effect (and it turned out that he had purposefully omitted this item from the list he gave the DM; she says she wouldn't've allowed it if she'd known). After that session, I talked to the DM about how only getting to do things on another person's say-so was not my idea of fun. The other players felt similarly, so the DM un-mind-controlled us via deus ex machina, which New Guy was very sporting about.
This session, we went to the Demonweb Pits in a heavily-modified version of the 3.5 Expedition to the Demonweb Pits. Because New Guy's character is from a high-ranking drow family, he ended up leading us around--the DM showed him a map of the module since "he would know," and the rest of us have been told that if we touch anything we're not supposed to, Lolth (or at least high-level NPCs) will eat us. Essentially, it was Everyone Does What New Guy Says v2.0, except that instead of mind control, we have the threat of getting curbstomped.
This is still not my idea of fun. What can I do? I'm not I'm not sure talking to the DM again would help, because last time she only dealt with the immediate problem rather than the underlying one (and I'm not sure it's fair to ask New Guy to stop having his fun in exchange for me having fun again). On the other hand, I've been playing with this party for a while, and I don't want to let them down by quitting.
The other thing is that we probably only have one session left--we're a college group that doesn't meet every week, and I'm graduating at the end of this semester. Should I just tough it out for one more session, even though I'm not having fun? The party sort of needs my character to be there (she's our only serious damage-dealer), but they don't necessarily need me, since she's not super-complicated.