3.p cavalier feat choice

[magwaaf]

i'm curious as to how this looks for a feat list for a 3.p cavalier (lance charge initiative build) that i would pick and when i would pick them
b= backstory feat we homebrew in, h = human

h mounted combat
b bloodied
1 imp initiative
3 spirited charge
5 power attack
7 imp bull rush
9 unseat
11 endurance
13 campaigner
15 ride by attack
17 cleave
19 g cleave


any help is great thanks

[magwaaf]

things i forgot to add that i would like to try and fit in

i shouldnt do this stuff when i first wake up hence the cleaves lol

imp crit lance
shield ward
mounted shield
missile shield
ray shield