Kesnit
2015-01-11, 07:06 AM
I'm in a 3.5 game run by my wife. The other players are my mother-in-law and two of our friends. The friends have played with multiple, diverse DMs. I've been reading this forum for years, so have decent knowledge of the system, though I haven't played a lot. My MiL, on the other hand, has really only played with 1 DM, who runs a world so outside the reality of anyone familiar with 3.5 that it barely fits within the system. (The more knowledge you have of 3.5, the worse it will be since you expect things to work a certain way.) She wanted to play an Elf Bard, and asked me to build her PC, and level it when the party levels. No problem - I pulled up Bard Handbooks and went to town.
Bard 9
Abilities (with magic items included)
STR 10
DEX 18
CON 12
INT 14
WIS 10
CHA 20
+2 Longbow
+1 Chain Shirt
(She has other items, but they aren't really important)
Feats
Dragontouched
Dragonfire Inspiration +2d6
Master Manipulator
Haunting Melody
Skills focus on Perform and social skills.
Class Features
Bardic Music 6/day
Bardic Knack
Countersong
Fascinate
Inspire Competence
Suggestion
Inspire Greatness
0-level
Prestigitation
Detect Magic
Songbird
Ghost Sound
Mage Hand
Resistance
1-level
Tasha's Hideous Laughter
Grease
Charm Person
Silent Image
2-level
Glitterdust
Hold Person
Detect Thoughts
Alter Self
3-level
Dispel Magic
Haste
Good Hope
I made a "cheat sheet" which has full explanations of all her feats and the full write-up of all her spells known, which she keeps with her character sheet.
The rest of the party:
Human Cleric Archer. (This is his third PC. The first - a Wizard - betrayed the party in epic fashion and has become Enemy #1. I can't remember what his second was, other than it was a caster.)
Homebrew race Rogue/SORC, who will eventually go into Daggerspell Mage (The DM is letting him do a rebuild once he does, since he didn't know the PrC existed when he originally built).
Azurian Totemist with the Feral template (me. I took an extra level of LA in order to get the abilities of the template to progress with my HD).
Every time we go into combat, she does the same thing - Dragonfire Inspiration, then shoots her bow. I've never seen her use any Bardic Music other than DFI (though she just got Inspire Greatness and Haunting Melody). She occasionally casts Detect Magic, but that's it. She's never used another spell. She's having fun, but there are times when her other abilities would be really useful. I don't want to tell her how to run her PC (which is what would end up happening), but it would be nice to get more out of her than 1 song and finding magical items. (DFI is great - we get a lot of use out of it. But there's a lot more she could do.)
Is there anything I can do to encourage her to get more involved?
Bard 9
Abilities (with magic items included)
STR 10
DEX 18
CON 12
INT 14
WIS 10
CHA 20
+2 Longbow
+1 Chain Shirt
(She has other items, but they aren't really important)
Feats
Dragontouched
Dragonfire Inspiration +2d6
Master Manipulator
Haunting Melody
Skills focus on Perform and social skills.
Class Features
Bardic Music 6/day
Bardic Knack
Countersong
Fascinate
Inspire Competence
Suggestion
Inspire Greatness
0-level
Prestigitation
Detect Magic
Songbird
Ghost Sound
Mage Hand
Resistance
1-level
Tasha's Hideous Laughter
Grease
Charm Person
Silent Image
2-level
Glitterdust
Hold Person
Detect Thoughts
Alter Self
3-level
Dispel Magic
Haste
Good Hope
I made a "cheat sheet" which has full explanations of all her feats and the full write-up of all her spells known, which she keeps with her character sheet.
The rest of the party:
Human Cleric Archer. (This is his third PC. The first - a Wizard - betrayed the party in epic fashion and has become Enemy #1. I can't remember what his second was, other than it was a caster.)
Homebrew race Rogue/SORC, who will eventually go into Daggerspell Mage (The DM is letting him do a rebuild once he does, since he didn't know the PrC existed when he originally built).
Azurian Totemist with the Feral template (me. I took an extra level of LA in order to get the abilities of the template to progress with my HD).
Every time we go into combat, she does the same thing - Dragonfire Inspiration, then shoots her bow. I've never seen her use any Bardic Music other than DFI (though she just got Inspire Greatness and Haunting Melody). She occasionally casts Detect Magic, but that's it. She's never used another spell. She's having fun, but there are times when her other abilities would be really useful. I don't want to tell her how to run her PC (which is what would end up happening), but it would be nice to get more out of her than 1 song and finding magical items. (DFI is great - we get a lot of use out of it. But there's a lot more she could do.)
Is there anything I can do to encourage her to get more involved?