race with dex and char

[anonman]

Looking for a race with a bonus for dex and charisma I'll go to at least 3 in level adjustment.

[Waker]

Catfolk from Races of the Wild.

[Troacctid]

Feytouched (http://archive.wizards.com/default.asp?x=dnd/sp/20040213a) are +2 Dex, -2 Con, +2 Cha for +0 LA and an optional racial level.

[SangoProduction]

Celadrin, Lesser: +2 dex, +2 cha, -2 con; Player’s Guide to Faerun 191 & Dragon 350 – 52

D'hin'ni, Lesser: +2 dex, +2 cha, -2 wis; Player’s Guide to Faerun 191 & Dragon 350 – 54

Gruwaar: +2 dex, +2 cha, -2 str, -2 wis; Dragon 317 – 25

Unseelie Fey: -2 str, +2 dex, -2 con, +2 cha; Dragon Compendium 222

Paragon classes but still, they can give you bonuses to either of those, and fit within the "+3 la" effectively:
Aberrant Paragon 2 (Cha): +2 cha; Dragon 332 – 45
Gnome Paragon 3: +2 cha; Unearthed Arcana 36
Half-Elf Paragon 3: +2 any; Unearthed Arcana 39
Half-Orc Paragon 3: +2 any; Unearthed Arcana 40
Human Paragon 3: +2 any; Unearthed Arcana 43
Kobold Paragon 3: +2 cha; Races of the Dragon web enhancement

[Malimar]

LA +1
Catfolk (+4 dex, +2 cha) (Races of the Wild)
Feytouched (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Fiend Folio)
Chaos Gnome (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Races of Stone)
Mephling, Air or Fire (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Planar Handbook)

LA +2
Deepyrm Drow (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Dragon Magic)
Drow (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Monster Manual)
Umbragen (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Secrets of Xen'drik)
Gloaming (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Underdark)
Tayling (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Bestiary of Krynn)

LA +3
Deep Gnome (+2 dex, +2 cha) (Player's Guide to Faerun)
Grig (+8 dex, +4 cha) (Monster Manual)
Varoot Nerra (+4 dex, +6 cha) (Fiend Folio)
Nixie (+6 dex, +8 cha) (Monster Manual)

[ChaosStar]

Trixie (Bastards and Bloodlines): +4 Dex +2 Cha. Also has -4 Str, +2 Int, and +2 Wis. Small Size and can change size into dimunitive. +3 LA
Piper (Bastards and Bloodlines): +2 Dex and Cha. +2 LA
Kestrel (Bastards and Bloodlines): +2 Dex and Cha. -2 Str and Int. Can Fly. +2 LA

[ShurikVch]

How about some templates?
Bodak (Dragon Compendium) - Dex +4, Cha +2
Ghoulish (Dragon Compendium) - Dex +4, Cha +6
Ghastly (Dragon Compendium) - Dex +4, Cha +6
Cauldron Spawn (Dragon #340) - Dex +4, Cha +4

*+0 - because templates itself are doesn't mentioned LA, which is, by the RAW, means "unchanged"Half-Fey (Fiend Folio) - Dex +2, Cha +4
Half-Nymph (Dragon #313) - Dex +2, Cha +4
Half-Vampire (Libris Mortis) - Dex +2, Cha +2
Gravetouched Ghoul (Libris Mortis) - Dex +4, Cha +2Half-Air Elemental (Manual of the Planes) - Dex +2, Cha +2
Half-Fire Elemental (Manual of the Planes) - Dex +4, Cha +2
Half-Rakshasa (Dragon #313) - Dex +2, Cha +2
Ghul (Dragon #330) - Dex +4, Cha +2
Radiant Creature (Dragon #321) - Dex +4, Cha +6
Elder Serpent (Dragon #313) - Dex +2, Cha +(2d4+4)