D&D 3.5 wizard build forgotten realms (pathfinder rules)

[ewayne13]

Hello all, new here I needed some help. I'm getting ready for a new game (relatively new to gaming) I've played some but completely new to wizard. Now ive researched as much as possible before having to post. And wanted to get some help.
The basis of my build is
Grey elf wizard focused specialist conjuration (abrupt jaunt) dropping evocation and enchantment
I like the idea of joining that with initiates of the sevenfold veil down the line. My goal is to be a great wizard that frustrates opponents helps team not some fireball crazy wizard (hence dropping evocation) but reading Initiate of sevenfold veil is focused or at least 3 feats focused in abjuration. To qualify. Now my plan is to use conjuration for the damage and fun will suppression etc illusion and mental abilities and abjuration, cause dont want to die easy. Id love some help with feats to best accomplish this possibly awkward mashup of specialist conj. And 7fold veil abjuration. I want my wizard to play chess while monsters are playing rock paper scissors lol. Also planning on focusing skills(besides what needed for Veil) in being the guy who says I know what monster that is and how to kill it. I know how to undo that charm. Etc if this is possible any help would be amazing. We are starting at 1 or 2nd level. And on from there. Lets not go higher then 15th cause after that i know wizards are ridiculous anyway. If this isnt enough info or Im not being too clear please let me know anyway i can make this better. My background is a basis of my version of a merlin. Old elf wizard who used to be great at evocation when he was younger didnt like how the world was headed after all these young sorcerer whippersnappers that just take their magic for granted. I have been locked away studying and focusing on the more I guess intelligent side of the magical world studying reading etc and havent really practiced. So now I need to rebuild abilities and am focusing on the higher purpose of the abilities of the sevenfold veil I wish to attain. Probably not all 5 levels 4 levels max. And use my smarts and 5 moves ahead thinking to dominate instead of just big fire or lightning attacks. Love ropetrick teleports etc.

Last thing for a specific thing i want to do is trap my spellbook. With at least 2 pref. 3 traps. First damages the person or traps them like (maze at later levels) and then spellbook teleporting back to me(greator teleport to safehaven later levels). Whew okay thats all sorry its alot. Since a wizard must be well prepared Im wanting to prepare more than usual for this.

Thank you all for any help!

[noob]

Make of the entire multiverse a spellbook.(if you can)
Also have a resetting trap of fabricate create copies of a non magical version of your spellbook indefinitely and have a lantern archon have a contract with you making it say by a telepatic link the random places where it brings copies of your spellbook from the fabricate factory.
Also get create lantern archon: it is an awesome spell and you can even possibly sell castings of it to the archons during your down time

Sepia snake sigil is utterly cheap(500 po if cast directly and 0 with shadow conjuration) and is better than killing the person trying to steal your spellbook since it can possibly allow to find that person and interrogate that person(with divination spells and mind rape and the like)

Illusory script is cool too for spellbook defense but there is a lot of people which are immunized.

As usual mirror mephits are a way for simulacrum spam so as soon as you get lesser planar binding or a way to coerce a summoned creature then you can have a mirror mephit army which creates an army of anything you want periodically.

samantha delicate disk is an easy way to store spells and with shadow conjuration you can make them for free and since it never says other ways (relatively to the first mentioned way which is of breaking it by hand) of breaking the disk does not works you can probably have a bowl full of those disks and drop or throw an heavy object on it to break many disks for stuff like getting all the boosts at once on an ally or killing all the opponents at once.