MrEdwardNigma
2008-01-25, 06:34 PM
Ahem. I guess you all know how this goes. I've got this friend. He used to be one of my best friends, if it weren't for the fact that I don't qualify my friends as better and less good.
Anyways, things are going badly for this friend. the thing is, his life isn't too bad. Not at all in fact. He used to be pretty unpopular, and he was always very gloomy about this, but now he always gets invited to all kinds of parties and he has plenty of friends.
Things in school aren't going that well for him, but this is because he is really lazy, not because he can't handle it (his words, not mine, and the evidence shows he's right).
Because of the fact he failed his exams twice, he's still stuck in high school while I have moved on to college, so I don't really see him that much anymore. And every time I try to hang out with him, he has no time, because of school, or because he needs to finish that computergame he's playing. He apparently doesn't even go to those parties he gets invited too that often anymore.
This means I only get to hear from him through MSN, and can't really make that sure if he's allright. He told me his parents sent him to a shrink, god knows why. But then when he noticed all the shrink did was have him talk a bit and listen, and then ask loads of money for it, he stopped going. He told me he was fine after that and he had "seen the light" or something. He'd basically realised his life wasn't that bad.
And then, a couple of days ago, all of the sudden, he tells me he attacked his sister. Or tried, at least. She was being mean to him or something, and he tried to hit her. He then vagualy said something about being sent to a hospital, his stuff being taken, but him being out now. I have no idea how serious he was being about that.
Now my question is, how do I help this guy?
Anyways, things are going badly for this friend. the thing is, his life isn't too bad. Not at all in fact. He used to be pretty unpopular, and he was always very gloomy about this, but now he always gets invited to all kinds of parties and he has plenty of friends.
Things in school aren't going that well for him, but this is because he is really lazy, not because he can't handle it (his words, not mine, and the evidence shows he's right).
Because of the fact he failed his exams twice, he's still stuck in high school while I have moved on to college, so I don't really see him that much anymore. And every time I try to hang out with him, he has no time, because of school, or because he needs to finish that computergame he's playing. He apparently doesn't even go to those parties he gets invited too that often anymore.
This means I only get to hear from him through MSN, and can't really make that sure if he's allright. He told me his parents sent him to a shrink, god knows why. But then when he noticed all the shrink did was have him talk a bit and listen, and then ask loads of money for it, he stopped going. He told me he was fine after that and he had "seen the light" or something. He'd basically realised his life wasn't that bad.
And then, a couple of days ago, all of the sudden, he tells me he attacked his sister. Or tried, at least. She was being mean to him or something, and he tried to hit her. He then vagualy said something about being sent to a hospital, his stuff being taken, but him being out now. I have no idea how serious he was being about that.
Now my question is, how do I help this guy?