valadil
2008-10-01, 10:35 AM
One of my friends is getting married in two weeks and I'm in his wedding party. He didn't pick a best man, so the groomsmen are handling the bachelor party and toasts.
Believe it or not, I'm actually kind of looking forward to giving a speech. What I'm having trouble with is what to write. I know you're supposed to joke around a little and tease the groom a bit, but I'm having trouble figuring out just how much to make fun of him. I generally don't mind crossing lines (usually I encourage it), but it doesn't seem appropriate if the dude's grandma is attending.
So what I'm wondering is how far can I go without actually hurting feelings? I know that it's his day, not my open mic night, and the speech will have content besides jokes. But for the jokes that are in there how much can I make fun without being mean?
Believe it or not, I'm actually kind of looking forward to giving a speech. What I'm having trouble with is what to write. I know you're supposed to joke around a little and tease the groom a bit, but I'm having trouble figuring out just how much to make fun of him. I generally don't mind crossing lines (usually I encourage it), but it doesn't seem appropriate if the dude's grandma is attending.
So what I'm wondering is how far can I go without actually hurting feelings? I know that it's his day, not my open mic night, and the speech will have content besides jokes. But for the jokes that are in there how much can I make fun without being mean?