being a hardcore gamer and having to play my gams(i run one and pc the other) if i don't get gaming i have withdrawls and my girl friend becomes all unhappy(she doesn't play though).

But we don't invite people to games who arn't the same way. Though your loss is more then a reasonable excuse, can't remember if you have mentioned it to them(though you shouldn't feel like you half to) it may help to smooth things over.

Though i would ask them if thats what they expect. I tend to get pissy at players who don't show up because they feel like it or they want to go hang out with a friend they do every other night. though thats mainyl cuz there is a line to get into the games we play.