LGBTAitP #31: Cuddles Are On Back Order. Have Some Snuggles!

[Karen Lynn]

Show me on the dolly where you want Mynxae to touch you...

Still not as bad as what I said.

[Lissou]

Would my plushie be holding a tinier plushie? If so, should it be a different material so it's clear I'm not holding a tiny human?

[Karen Lynn]

Yes and yes.

This now makes me think the Chessie plush should hold a smaller Mynx plush, and vice versa.

[Mynxae]

Show me on the dolly where you want Mynxae to touch you...

Yes and yes.

This now makes me think the Chessie plush should hold a smaller Mynx plush, and vice versa.

Oh dear god, what. What.

[Karen Lynn]

Cody, tell Mynx what I suggested as a plushie gift of you for him... >:D

[Asta Kask]

I think plushie sex toys is a really bad idea. They'd get wet and sticky.

[Karen Lynn]

If you want to use the plushie itself, I can see the problem. That'd be why I recommend an insert(for male use) or attachment(for female use). Have the sex toy part itself removable for ease of cleaning.

[Thajocoth]

Shampoo: I just use a 3 in 1 shampoo / conditioner / body wash. This simplifies things a lot.

[Asta Kask]

What are the implications of the upcoming Zombie Apocalypse for the LGBTA community?

[Chess435]

I'd make a giant extremely huggable, soft and cuddly plushie

I third the motion

Oh god do want would cuddle.
...and the plushie's nice too.

Show me on the dolly where you want Mynxae to touch you...

Would my plushie be holding a tinier plushie? If so, should it be a different material so it's clear I'm not holding a tiny human?

Yes and yes.

This now makes me think the Chessie plush should hold a smaller Mynx plush, and vice versa.

Cody, tell Mynx what I suggested as a plushie gift of you for him... >:D

If you want to use the plushie itself, I can see the problem. That'd be why I recommend an insert(for male use) or attachment(for female use). Have the sex toy part itself removable for ease of cleaning.

Oh dear god, what. What.

This is why I love you all. If I ever win the lottery, I'm moving this entire thread into a mansion together. If it's one of the really big ones, I'm buying the set for Rivendell, making it livable, and then moving the whole thread there.

Also, how does "LGBTAitP #32: The Great Plushie Invasion!" sound?

[Karen Lynn]

I like the sound of that Title.

I hereby nominate Chessie for thread #32.

[Lentrax]

I can second that.
Always wanted to live in a movie set.
And Chess for the next thread too.

[noparlpf]

If you want to use the plushie itself, I can see the problem. That'd be why I recommend an insert(for male use) or attachment(for female use). Have the sex toy part itself removable for ease of cleaning.

Welp, that's plushies ruined.

What are the implications of the upcoming Zombie Apocalypse for the LGBTA community?

I dunno. My social life will probably diminish even further as several of you are picked off. Yeah, this actually counts for a large chunk of my social life.

[Asta Kask]

I guess no one will care if you wear a skirt as long as you can shoot a zombie in the head at 50 paces. Of course, estrogen might be difficult to find.

[noparlpf]

I guess no one will care if you wear a skirt as long as you can shoot a zombie in the head at 50 paces. Of course, estrogen might be difficult to find.

Skirts snag on things and can be grabbed, though. Pants with pockets is a better bet.

[Karen Lynn]

Welp, that's plushies ruined.

Date a very active plushophile, and it's adapt or throw out all your plushies.

I guess no one will care if you wear a skirt as long as you can shoot a zombie in the head at 50 paces. Of course, estrogen might be difficult to find.

As much as I live the freedom of movement a skirt offers...

Skirts snag on things and can be grabbed, though. Pants with pockets is a better bet.

Pants are better. Especially if they have many pockets.

Also, dibs on archery drops!

[Arachu]

*Huggles everyone*

Sorry about disappearing after that last post, I thought I was gonna be at my cousin's for longer than I was.

So, as of yesterday I now have a therapist! She doesn't specialize in gender or anything, but she's pretty cool about it and she may be able to point me in the direction of doctors that can help with hormones and stuff! Also she might be able to help me work through some other problems I have (like that thing where I take hours to fall asleep because my mind keeps racing).


~Bianca

[Asta Kask]

*Huggles everyone*

Sorry about disappearing after that last post, I thought I was gonna be at my cousin's for longer than I was.

So, as of yesterday I now have a therapist! She doesn't specialize in gender or anything, but she's pretty cool about it and she may be able to point me in the direction of doctors that can help with hormones and stuff! Also she might be able to help me work through some other problems I have (like that thing where I take hours to fall asleep because my mind keeps racing).


~Bianca

Quitting caffeine can help you with that other problem. :) Congratulations on getting what seems to be a good therapist.

[Coidzor]

Date a very active plushophile, and it's adapt or throw out all your plushies.

Well, that's not very nice of them to go ruining your plushies like that. Generally you're supposed to dump people who don't respect you and the boundaries of your personal property though.

As much as I live the freedom of movement a skirt offers...

What freedom of movement? Skirts are defined mostly by what you can't do in them, though, I suppose, most of that is what you can't do in them without flashing whatever junk is in your trunk to everyone in a 5 mile radius.

So, as of yesterday I now have a therapist! She doesn't specialize in gender or anything, but she's pretty cool about it and she may be able to point me in the direction of doctors that can help with hormones and stuff! Also she might be able to help me work through some other problems I have (like that thing where I take hours to fall asleep because my mind keeps racing).


~Bianca

Glad she's a good fit so far. Hope it continues to work out well for you.

[Arachu]

Quitting caffeine can help you with that other problem. :) Congratulations on getting what seems to be a good therapist.

But I don't even drink that much caffeine (aside from the two to four pots of coffee I make when going to my cousin Quinn's house, but that's sorta rare). I just have a lot of ideas (during the day it just distracts me a little).


On another note, my aunt and an old friend from high school are calling me Bianca on a regular basis now. Chelsea (said old friend) even introduced me to who I think is her girlfriend with it. Also, when I complained about my hirsuteness at the therapist's she responded that she couldn't see any facial hair (meaning that I shave better than I thought).


~Bianca

[noparlpf]

But I don't even drink that much caffeine (aside from the two to four pots of coffee I make when going to my cousin Quinn's house, but that's sorta rare). I just have a lot of ideas (during the day it just distracts me a little).

Keep a notepad next to your bed and write things down. That's a common suggestion.

On another note, my aunt and an old friend from high school are calling me Bianca on a regular basis now. Chelsea (said old friend) even introduced me to who I think is her girlfriend with it. Also, when I complained about my hirsuteness at the therapist's she responded that she couldn't see any facial hair (meaning that I shave better than I thought).

~Bianca

Relevant. I'm pretty sure you're going to notice much smaller differences in your appearance than other people will because you're more familiar with your face and tend to get closer to it.

[Ravens_cry]

That's really wonderful.
I hope I can gain the courage to express my fluid gender identity in public.
I don't have many friends in the Real World and I don't know how they'd react if I showed up to D&D in a skirt.
How does the playground recommend getting experience with the art of tasteful deception, i.e. makeup? I want to look somewhat natural as opposed to say, drag queen.

[Coidzor]

Freewriting and journaling can help declutter a busy mind at the end or beginning of the day or both.

[Karen Lynn]

Well, that's not very nice of them to go ruining your plushies like that. Generally you're supposed to dump people who don't respect you and the boundaries of your personal property though.

What freedom of movement? Skirts are defined mostly by what you can't do in them, though, I suppose, most of that is what you can't do in them without flashing whatever junk is in your trunk to everyone in a 5 mile radius.

Oh, he respected the bounds of my property, for sure. He didn't modify or boink any of my plushies. I just quickly learned how to modify plushies in a variety of ways(not too hard, going from making plushies). However, making the toys removable is a pain...

Knee length skirt, leggings. Total freedom of movement if you aren't worried about getting a run in your stockings, or showing off what you have.

That's really wonderful.
I hope I can gain the courage to express my fluid gender identity in public.
I don't have many friends in the Real World and I don't know how they'd react if I showed up to D&D in a skirt.
How does the playground recommend getting experience with the art of tasteful deception, i.e. makeup? I want to look somewhat natural as opposed to say, drag queen.

I can't help you here. I just apply lipstick that is ever so slightly off my natural lip color to start... I haven't toyed with other makeup yet. Let me know what you find out!

[Ravens_cry]

I can't help you here. I just apply lipstick that is ever so slightly off my natural lip color to start... I haven't toyed with other makeup yet. Let me know what you find out!

Hmm, thank you. I am mostly interested in shading, turning my face more feminine through artful use of shadow.
I almost never do this, but I think I'll post pictures of myself some time soon from front and profile to try and help out those who want to help me out with specifics.

[Eirala]

Adrian Korvedzk: You can look really pretty when you try ! I also like your incredibly varied collection of pony-shirts!

While I appreciate the compliment, Phee, I think you have me mixed with Akowrules.

Even though i'd really love to see Akowrules refer to yet another one and get a pretty epic quote-chain, i'll now resolve the mystery by shamelessly claiming it was me.
So thanks for the compliment ^_^
My "incredibly varied collection of pony-shirts" includes every single one of the two shirts you see on the pictures, by the way.

That's really wonderful.
I hope I can gain the courage to express my fluid gender identity in public.
I don't have many friends in the Real World and I don't know how they'd react if I showed up to D&D in a skirt.
How does the playground recommend getting experience with the art of tasteful deception, i.e. makeup? I want to look somewhat natural as opposed to say, drag queen.

I have not very much experience with makeup, so it's probably better to not take what i have to say too seriously.

Anyway, concerning makeup i watched a whole bunch of videos. Most of them are specifically for transwomen. I can't recall which were most useful, but here is a bunch i saved in a playlist, so maybe they are helpful:

Spoiler

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trans-passing-MtF/feminization//everyday makeup///tips
Helping with makeup for trans women!
How To: Determining Your Skin Tone
HOW TO: FIND THE CORRECT FOUNDATION SHADE
How I do my make up: Make up for transgender women
Transgender Make Up Basics: Foundation

Also, with the little experience i have i can say that a bit of makeup can already make you look much more feminine. Don't overdo it, especially if you want a natural look.
Other than that it's probably best to just experiment a bit. With the help of YT videos you should get quite a good impression about how and what to do in general.

[Arachu]

Keep a notepad next to your bed and write things down. That's a common suggestion.

I do have the one notepad I haven't used for anything... *Considers doing that* X3

Relevant. I'm pretty sure you're going to notice much smaller differences in your appearance than other people will because you're more familiar with your face and tend to get closer to it.

Oh my god that happens to me all the time! Stupid bit of skin that happens to be right on the jawline. >.<

(... Although on the plus side, I'm learning how to do eyeliner really quickly. I should start using it and lip gloss more often. X3 )


~Bianca

[noparlpf]

I do have the one notepad I haven't used for anything... *Considers doing that* X3

It helps me a bit. Although most of the things I spend my nights stressing over aren't things I'm worrying about forgetting.

Oh my god that happens to me all the time! Stupid bit of skin that happens to be right on the jawline. >.<

(... Although on the plus side, I'm learning how to do eyeliner really quickly. I should start using it and lip gloss more often. X3 )

~Bianca

It just takes practice and a bit of patience to shave well. I have a guy friend who doesn't bother very often, and last time I visited my old school and saw him he had just shaved, so I pointed out the half-dozen patches he had missed in various places. The jawline is a bit awkward, but I pull that bit of skin up and then down to shave it instead of trying to work around the edge of the jawbone, which doesn't really work.

[SiuiS]

Quitting caffeine can help you with that other problem. :) Congratulations on getting what seems to be a good therapist.

Ithouhgt it was a natural facet of being young and aware.
I spent every night of my life, until highschool graduation, lying awake in my own little multiverse until i drifted off some 3-4 am. Then I spent every night awake until 3-4 am anyway, just not in my own little worlds anymore. I kinda miss it sometimes.

Relevant. I'm pretty sure you're going to notice much smaller differences in your appearance than other people will because you're more familiar with your face and tend to get closer to it.

hot diggety darn! It's not on dA anymore, I can actually follow it now!

Even though i'd really love to see Akowrules refer to yet another one and get a pretty epic quote-chain, i'll now resolve the mystery by shamelessly claiming it was me.
So thanks for the compliment ^_^
My "incredibly varied collection of pony-shirts" includes every single one of the two shirts you see on the pictures, by the way.

I like shirts, they're fun.

I have not very much experience with makeup, so it's probably better to not take what i have to say too seriously.

Anyway, concerning makeup i watched a whole bunch of videos. Most of them are specifically for transwomen. I can't recall which were most useful, but here is a bunch i saved in a playlist, so maybe they are helpful:

Spoiler

Show

trans-passing-MtF/feminization//everyday makeup///tips
Helping with makeup for trans women!
How To: Determining Your Skin Tone
HOW TO: FIND THE CORRECT FOUNDATION SHADE
How I do my make up: Make up for transgender women
Transgender Make Up Basics: Foundation

Also, with the little experience i have i can say that a bit of makeup can already make you look much more feminine. Don't overdo it, especially if you want a natural look.
Other than that it's probably best to just experiment a bit. With the help of YT videos you should get quite a good impression about how and what to do in general.

Looks kinda like a spam link post XD
I blame the formatting. Quyote for save i suppose.

[noparlpf]

hot diggety darn! It's not on dA anymore, I can actually follow it now!

It's been on this site for ages. I started New Year's Eve in December 2011 on that site.