Eh, he's pretty good grooming-wise (or at least was last I saw him). He has his own style, and it suits him pretty well. He shaves, he showers... He's fine in that regard.
And he has been going out and hanging out with friends. Possibly drinking too much, but I don't think he's usually alone when he does so. Not much I can really help with when I'm on the other side of the planet, though.

His luck mostly seems to be women leaving him (*raises hand*, but also someone else), women giving an "it's not you, it's me" speech (a good friend of mine - do I pretend to be all outraged at her, or do I not? ), a business deal going down in flames, and his kitten getting bitten by a snake. So yeah...

I wish I didn't feel like I'm walking on eggshells with him. He says he's not angry any more, and we had a proper talk for once, but I'm worried that if I say the wrong thing - or rather, if I don't say exactly the right thing - it'll all explode again