Quote Originally Posted by Nai_Calus View Post
...I just found out that my grandmother died this morning.

And all my mother is doing is blabbering about 'oh we've expected this so long blah blah blah' and not even caring.

Curse words. Just... Curse words. Frak.
*hugs* I'm sorry.

Just a word of advice...some people (myself included) have a sort of delayed reaction to grief. In my experience, my immediate reaction is "get everyone through this" and I can actually be extremely calm. Your mother may be one of the people that reacts that way. It doesn't indicate a lack of caring, just a different sort of response.