Quote Originally Posted by Nai_Calus View Post
...I just found out that my grandmother died this morning.

And all my mother is doing is blabbering about 'oh we've expected this so long blah blah blah' and not even caring.

Curse words. Just... Curse words. Frak.
Everyone reacts differently to grief. Everyone copes in their own way. Just because she is not reacting in the same way you or certain other people do, does not mean that she doesn't care.