Ah. Sorry. Though I must admit that your saying that makes me curious. I know I believe and am somethings that always seem odd to me as to how I've developed or just... been the way that I am.
From what I've experienced and what I've usually heard from what others have, it just seems like attraction and desire or the lack thereof are the more clear-cut parts, even if we don't really have words for what it is or why and people like to give those with "non-standard" setups a hard time or worse.
Hmm. I'm trying to ask a question here, since you've piqued my curiosity, but how to phrase it is failing me.![]()