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Originally Posted by
Coidzor
I was friends with one woman who identified as a lesbian despite maintaining a relationship with a man and sleeping only with men because there were no bisexuals or lesbians for even casual sex. In a college town noted for its disproportionately large LGBT population.
Then I met another woman who also identified solely as a lesbian despite being sexually attracted to men and romantically attracted to them as well because she wanted to send a message of unavailability to men despite her sexual history and sexual preferences being things that were, quite regrettably, no longer private.
What I'm saying is that there's some possibility that, no, she was not just bad at talking and was actually pan, whatever that actually really means.