We will continue to disagree on this. I have made my feelings known.
To add to Ogre Mage's comments, when Levitate becomes available, you can't pick fly.
It is not a unique effect. Greater Invisibility has the same effect, but much better. That's why it is blue.
That is entirely up to the DM, and as such is outside the scope of this guide.
Sharkforce nails it. Quickened spell can free up a lot of actions that are not casting a spell, and so many controller spells in the Sorcerer list rely on using an action. Quickened allows you to continue casting spells while simultaneously controlling the major effects that you've put into play.