if you find that the Ponythread collectively can't answer your question, but you still need an answer, there's a way you could probably get one. I would humbly suggest that you cross-post your question to another forum:
Role-playing Games Stack Exchange. This question is on-topic there, and I believe the visitors of the site are well-equipped to give good answers. You would have to organize the question a bit, by taking some of the text of your few posts here to collect all the details, and add some headings to make it more readable. I suggest that you fix the typos in the test before posting: although if you don't, someone else will edit your question to fix them, but until that time, some people might be turned away from the question if they see the typos before they see the content. I definitely recommend to link between the posts in this thread and the question there both ways, so that people won't try to give the same answer that someone else has already given on the other venue but that you haven't read yet.
Please understand that I'm not trying to turn you away from the Ponythread. I very much enjoyed your question here, and had you posted it only to RPG SE, I would likely never have seen it in first place.