Hm when I DM there is friendly banter and teasing . Verbal abuse such as outright hostility that should be dealt with by the PC or the party. Example being the half in player is taunting the half orc constantly. Well the orc player is probably going to respond with violence. If the member in question is hostile to all its even simpler. You aren't forced to be friends, murder him. Chance are it's him vs you or more. And. As for you saying his character was physically abusive how is he still breathing ???


When I'm a playing I generally play a racist human noble fighter or rogue. And constantly speak of the greatness of humanity while making remarks on any elves in the group or nonhuman's . Dwarfs are fine though. Otherwise I play a dwarf who dislikes only elves not half elfs but full blooded