Gonna have to throw my lot in with the "you don't know what you're talking about" crowd, which is the blunter way of saying "if you play an ******** obviously it will be an ********".

Go read some literature with proper paladiny characters in them to see what they should be like. Elizabeth Moon's "The Deed of Paksenarrion", The Dragonlance books "Vinas Solamnus" and "The Legend of Huma", the original template for the D&D paladin is Poul Anderseon's "Three hearts and three lions".