Quote Originally Posted by Luz View Post
Should I end a relationship because I realized I’m demanding too much of the person I’m with and not giving anything back in return?

I’m also not in the position to give anything back in return anytime soon.

Am I being abusive?
I don't think you should end the relationship for that reason. It seems to me kind of disrespectful to your partner to make the choice for them (ok to do it for yourself of course) to end the relationship - it suggests that you think you know better than them what is best for them.

It also doesn't sound like abuse as I think of the word.

It might be being selfish, and I think you are being misleading if you are allowing them to think something (like that you will change) when you know it to be false. But the solution to that is to be upfront, not to end the relationship.