Quote Originally Posted by guttering flame View Post
Yes? Break up before you make out with the next guy
And when the person you want to break up with is away, and you don't know when they'll return and have no way of contacting them? What then?

Ideally yes, break up first, then go after the next person. Under the circumstances that we actually saw, I have a hard time blaming Surma very much for how she handled it. She fell in love with Tony and decided to pursue it while he was out of his shell instead of waiting until he was back at the Court and withdrawn into himself again. When they got back, she told Eglamore at the earliest opportunity.

It's not like Eglamore would have reacted any better if she'd waited.

Relationships are messy things. I don't feel like we can sit in judgement of anything that's transpired.