WELP! I take back a lot of what I said about Surma. No wonder poor Antimony has issues with communication, yikes.

I don't think it is infringing upon one's autonomy if they agree to an exclusive relationship and fail to meet standards expected of such. Basically, if she agreed to date James, she should have followed through with it and broke up in a non-public place, away from his friends and BEFORE SHE BANGED ANOTHER PERSON. Either go through with it it completely or don't do it.