Originally Posted by
Tvtyrant
The only viable advice for an abusive relationship is to tell the person to get out of it. There isn't a lot they can do for someone who is stuck in an abusive situation, the victim isn't going to get mentally healthy under those conditions and the abuser isn't going to stop.
There is a reason abuse advice starts with acknowledging the victim is going to have a hard time being convinced they need to be extricated, and then healing starts by them leaving and cutting off contact.