Quote Originally Posted by Coidzor View Post
There are people who believe that.....
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Been away from dating and romance for decades, and have little knowledge of what's it like now, but I'm chiming in to post that your post started with "There are people who believe that..", which isn't very helpful as in a big world with so many people, you can be sure that somewhere, someone believes something that anyone could think of, and maybe has an internet presence.

It would be better if you gave face to face anecdotes, so there's a sample size that readers may judge.

I (for example) had never heard of an "enthusiastic concent movement", until reading about it in this thread, so based on a sample size of exactly one, what you described is either extremely uncommon, or hardly known about in my experience.

How common do you encounter the problems you perceive?