Quote Originally Posted by Fincher View Post
It's worth noting that the argument I've seen against Hayley (or at least the strongest one I've seen) is that she's chaotic, but the one person we've seen Durkon propose to is arguably more chaotic than Hayley is. Sure, he proposed because she's the mother of his child, but the evidence of him not wanting to marry someone chaotic is actually weaker than the evidence of him not being attracted to men; it's simply that he himself isn't chaotic.
My understanding is that it's less "he's not chaotic" and more "he's lawful"... That is to say, his life philosophy is opposed to hers. Worth noting also that he learned the more telling parts of Hylgia's alignment AFTER they'd done the horizontal tango... Up till then, a case could be made for her being nonevil and/or nonchaotic.