Respectful term for nonbinary people and people of unknown gender?

[The Extinguisher]

Speak for yourself. Dude is genderneutral here. If you don't want to adopt it, cool. But it is.

its really not. you can insist that it is, but its only neutral in that sense that we use it for groups of guys, and mixed groups.

to test this, go around a bunch of straight men and ask them how many dudes that have slept with