Quote Originally Posted by zimmerwald1915 View Post
No, it is your interpretation. You are not a mind reader. What is clear from the quote is that "the marriage was not consummated," not the reasons why it was not.

Having a "pleasant personality" does not mean appreciating that "no means no." Rapists can look like anything. Conversely, non-rapists don't have to appreciate that "no means no."
He literally says its the intended extrapolation that they didn't have sex, and that Ivan was a genuinely nice guy who cared about what his wife wanted. He even uses the word extrapolation.