Nothing about tool use implies hands. Magpies and Octopi demonstrate tool usage (without any hands).
Especially in setting with magic. Hell, you could have a psionic ball of slime that manipulates everything telekinetically. Nothing about humanoid shape is good about reaching space, if it was, we wouldn't need to have giant metal containers to go into space. Hell, I give space-faring slime better space survivability than humans.
I didn't meant sluttier than a dingo, I meant sluttier than a succubus.
In a setting with literalsemen demonstantric demons (i.e. creatures that literally feed on sex), you telling me humans are the absolute most spread out form? When did they start kidnapping humans? Thousand of years ago? Eons ago? Did aliens kidnap primitive cavemen? Did kidnapped humans all had sexual drives of severalZeusesDeuses? I mean they spread so far, that the xenophobic magitek Alari are human-shaped. And if I recall correctly, Alari are an ancient civilization.