I feel otherwise, but I'm not going to drag a list of ways my friend annoys me through a public forum.
I don't recall calling anything destestable. I'm tired, cranky and I've had to put up with a very iritating sextet of people for most of the day, so my thoughts on something that's been irritating me for a long time came out rather vehemently. I could have handled it better, maybe, but that's something to be discussed with somebody else.
Morals and moral pedestals is something that's subject to the same thing I said to enderlord.
Standing by, disowning or explaining things you have said is one of my moral principles. Asking people not to talk about important things you say in public is not.
Self-absorbed? Maybe. I can't see how I'd know if I was or wasn't, as I feel I'd be equally sure of my awareness of others either way.
@Zodi: I'm trying to write a reply to your comment. Please bear with me.