Grr, I believe right now that I have a superior ability to have fun over a wide range of games than you, based on your posts, appear to.

Here's why:

You hate being in a game with people who only want combat and numbers and dungeon crawls. I don't really mind. I will thus have more fun in a game like that.

You're manifestly unwilling to be flexible as far as character concepts, such as not allowing a ranger to serve in a particular order simply because they lack a particular skillset. I'm flexible (as a DM) when it would be more fun, so I enjoy games that would work better when used flexibly than you.

Essentially, I think you're sabotaging your own experience by holding the views that you do. It also might be advisable to relax a bit, but that's strictly optional.