I admittedly had messed up what the Crossbow Expert feat does. It isn't 100% based on shooting someone within 5 feet with the bow- it's based on being able to shoot anyone anywhere with a bow while you're in melee (typically 5 feet).
I don't think my DM has ever brought that up in all honesty which is probably why I never thought of it correctly. Disadvantage with ranged attacks on someone within 5 feet yes but I dunno if he's ever imposed it for shooting someone elsewhere when in melee.
I most certainly would consider that an important feat in these newfound circumstances- depending on whether my DM is doing that deliberately or not. It's something of a coin-flip.
I definitely wanted at least 1 level of Fighter so as to get the Archery Fighting Style and the bonus to-hit but it does seem like diving fully into the bow-wielding Monk offers a good bit too.