Quote Originally Posted by Rater202 View Post
It's not about the chocolate, it's about the principle of the matter, my brother acted entitled and bossy about it, we talked it out, and then he went behind my back to try and get my mother to berate me.
Everyone acting ****ty to you after the fact IS true, 100%. But it still begs the question of "why did you not want the chocolates?"

This entire situation would be solved by just accepting that they will never understand you don't want to celebrate with them. There are times where just rolling with a thing are correct, actually.