1. There are options to enhance Wild Shape to Humanoid Shape (see Master of Many Forms)
2. It's the Master of Many Forms ability at lvl 7:
As far as I know all feats are (EX) abilities unless otherwise mentioned. So, basically you should get the human bonus feat.Extraordinary Wild Shape (Ex): Starting at 7th level, a master of many forms gains the extraordinary special qualities of any form she assumes with wild shape.