Gender and sexuality diversity in RPG settings

[Satinavian]

The "Male Gaze" as known from film and TV is associated with producing for a male audience and seen as deliberate decision of producer/director. That is not what can be assumed for pictures of sexualized women in RPG materials.
Furthermore you wrote about whether it is a dealbreaker specifically for women. As if men were generally assumed to like such art and women not. Which is also something that seems to not really be the case. People are far more complicated, both men and women.