Gender and sexuality diversity in RPG settings

[Talakeal]

Okay, who said I wanted to play your "just another person" game? I want to play a hero, not replicate my own meaningless in my fantasies.

You don't see any middle ground between "meaningless / just another person" and "capable of solving all the world's problems, even if they are outside of my wheelhouse"?

And again, you might like to play omnicompetent characters in black and white worlds, and that is absolutely fine. But the language you have been using seems to imply that the majority of players feel the same way.