Quote Originally Posted by Liquor Box View Post
It goes both ways in that the trope can be read as having negative implications for both genders, not that negative implication for each is exactly the same. Men are portrayed as incapable and stupid (in a way that goes well beyond chores, which Elan stands as an example of), which to me seems to be a negative critique. Women are portrayed as competent, but this normalises the idea that women for carrying an uneven share of the responsibility in the relationship (including chores).
Oh, okay. I think that waht confused me was that it seemed to me that everyone already agreed on that and that "it goes both way" seemed to imply that the sterotypes was as often flipped as not and with the same connotations (which is false). My bad, carry on.