I had a rather awkward conversation with my boss at lunch yesterday.

It started with him saying when (not if, when) I trade my wife in on a "younger model," having kids would be expected. I glossed over the point that I CANNOT HAVE CHILDREN and pointed out that she and I have been married for 10 years and I have no intention of "trading her in." He commented back that his parents were married for 20 years before they divorced.

Then he asked me if transmen who are trying to get pregnant have to go off hormones. I have no idea. It's never been something I thought about because I am never having children!

Then he asked if it would have been possible for my wife and I to get pregnant at the same time when we first started dating. At this point, I did tell him I'd had surgery before I ever met her.

But yeah, how did I get myself roped into that conversation????