I'm not sure how typical I am, but a big reason I stopped regularly reading Marvel (I never read DC that regularly to begin with, but they have the same problem) was a feeling that nothing lasted. The obvious example are characters coming back from the dead, but it's equally true about almost any other changes big or small (there are exceptions, but they are very few), whether it's by an actual reboot or just a later writer having a different idea. I get why it is like that, a lot of superhero comics have been published for decades and will probably be published for decades to come, but it does make it hard for me to care about what happens.