My previous comments both called Starfield "average at best" and mentioned that I found BG3 "narratively a mess and lacking an interesting plot hook," so I don't know where you got the impression I like Bethesda games or only had issues with Larian's gameplay design. This seems like a you issue. Sorry I don't like the things you do.
And it's not so much that I dislike blank slate protagonists. Kingmaker, which I've referenced three times now, is my personal pick for best CRPG and has a blank main character, too. I dislike how Larian's "OC don't steal" characters overshadow the protagonist and make you feel superfluous in your own game.
Funny story: I hit a bug in BG3 where the game literally shunted Gale to the main character position. He replaced my character as the lead and NPCs would prioritize talking to him instead. I had to chuckle at how the game literally shoved my character out of the way.