True, I was tunnel-visioning in on Clone Wars, but you're right, and they both exhibit the same behaviour. Yeah, this is definitely a trend.
A more sympathetic reading is that wartime pressure and the need to mobilize as many Jedi as possible led to lower teaching standards and students who weren't given the guidance necessary to be able to function as Jedi, but still not great.
She's still alive, which counts for a lot.
Yeah, Anakin couldn't have the same training as the rest of the Jedi. Now, I think there is some very good criticism we could make of an order which is only capable of instilling it's beliefs into people if it abducts and indoctrinates them at a very young age. That the Jedi get completely short circuited trying to guide someone through such unusual questions as "Homesick" and "Horny" do not speak well to them as an institution.
He objectively does save the lives of people who would have otherwise died.
Ahsoka also spent a lot of time with Obi-Wan and Plo Koon, who are also positive influences and probably more to credit for any understanding she has of the philosophy side.