Having consulted a fellow DM, he had a novel response: when you activate the Rod it becomes immovable in relation to whatever you place it in contact with. So if you are placing it against the ship it 'sticks' to it, but if you are just holding it in the air it defaults to the center of the planet/plane and 'moves'
I see a fundamental problem with this - it is always in contact with the person who sets it.
Created an interactive character sheet for sidekicks on Google Sheets - automatic calculations, drop down menus for sidekick type, hopefully everything necessary to run a sidekick: https://tinyurl.com/y6rnyuyc