Drow of the Underdark was fairly well written for some information. Lords of madness is great if you want to go with drow.

As for male clerics you can always use the other big drow god, something about surface and males as his profiles.

Biggest suggestion of trying to only involved 3-4 houses as main players for the campaign. Make all your players linked to one house to cut down the backstabbing. So 1 house is your players, 1 house is the apparent main bad, 1 house is used for side contracts, and 1 house is manipulating the AMB behind everyone's back. Fairly basic formula that can be fun.