Thanks everyone. It's looking like I'm going to try to get my hands on

Nightstick
Disciple of the Sun feat
Circlet of Persuasion
Sacred Shield
Phylactery of Undead Turning
Scepter of the Netherworld

I don't think I can use the Rod of Defiance and the Scepter.

But for all that, I can turn, with my 18 modified Cha, +3 to checks, and 5 ranks of knowledge religion
paladin level +6 15% of attempts,
+7 15%,
+8 15%,
+9 15%,
+10 40%

I can double up and destroy a total of 5 times a day. Pretty damn brutal.

Again, thanks for the tips.