I wonder how many more time's I'll have to point it out...
Yes I dig this along with the other ToB suggestions.
The warhulk minotaur sounds fun but just doesn't fit.
To reiterate the ghost doesn't NEED to take on all the PCs but someone with a suggestion to do it would be much appreciated.
A swordsage or warblade seems like a pretty good (and annoying) "assassin" type character... I'll give ti some more thought. Any other suggestions following the guidelines in the OP would be awesome!