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2019-01-18, 08:40 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
You keep saying "love." they knew what each other looked like, and each other's names. That's pure lust, not love, which is unsympathetic. Thats also their only motivation. "Hey that person is pretty." that's the only thing driving them. If they made stupid decisions I could understand, but they kill themselves. That's ridiculously extreme over so thin a justification. And, to top it all off, there's zero character development; they're exactly the same at the end as they are in the beginning. There is nothing whatsoever that makes them heroic at any point, sive all their actions and decisions are selfish.
I don't know what play you read, but it sure as hell wasn't Romeo and Juliet.Last edited by Peelee; 2019-01-18 at 08:40 AM.
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2019-01-18, 09:26 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
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2019-01-18, 09:31 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
Cuthalion's art is the prettiest art of all the art. Like my avatar.
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2019-01-18, 09:59 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
Well, yeah, but it is a thing in literature...
Well, yeah, but it's still not something over which they deserved to die... There are many morals to the story, but even the weirderst of mine is more normal than "People who fall in lust die and deserve it"...
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2019-01-18, 10:55 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
My wife and I celebrate our 25th anniversary in two weeks. It was lust at first sight; we were married six weeks after we met for the first time.
"Love", since then, is not something we've fallen into. It's been more like a giant co-operative project that we've both spent years at, as we learn about each other. The rose-colored glasses generated by our hormones didn't last long; soul-crushing reality set in over the next two years. It took another few years to push past all the negatives which had finally become obvious to see the good parts as well.
I think I can truthfully say we love each other; but it's the product of effort, of sweat, of patience, and of work for decades. "Love" is not something that just happened to us. We earned it.
We married in the western style, in the sense that we arranged our own marriage to each other as our own choice without input from our families, but I suspect even an arranged marriage could achieve the same degree of love and respect we have for each other if both parties are willing to put the effort in.
ETA: As witness, I would call several of my Hindi co-workers. Pretty much all their marriages were arranged. But they don't seem unhappy. If anything, they seem more happy in their marriages than westerners who ostensibly have more choice in the matter.
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Brian P.Last edited by pendell; 2019-01-18 at 10:57 AM.
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2019-01-18, 10:57 AM (ISO 8601)
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2019-01-18, 11:44 AM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
Yeah, and congrats to you both for the journey.
ETA: As witness, I would call several of my Hindi co-workers. Pretty much all their marriages were arranged. But they don't seem unhappy. If anything, they seem more happy in their marriages than westerners who ostensibly have more choice in the matter.Avatar by linklele. How Teleport Worksa. Malifice (paraphrased):
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2019-01-18, 01:30 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
That's true of marriages generally though (caveat accepted). What would seem to be the difference is that people who've had their marriages arranged would tend to expect to have to make them work, while people who did not have their marriages arranged would tend to expect them to work themselves out.
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
I hope you realize that telling a stronger party "do what I want or I will instigate violence against you" almost always results in the one doing the threatening being put down extremely hard by said stronger party? To say nothing of the implausibility of a teenage girl being remotely able to actually physically harm her armed and presumably trained older male relatives?
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2019-01-18, 02:12 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
Oh man don't even go there. TW's problem is that hes judging a fictional family from 500 years ago by today's standards. By today's standards of our world, I agree with him, its not very far removed from sex trafficking. Judging people of the past by todays standards (to say nothing of fictional worlds) is called Presentism. Future people may judge us harshly on any number of things we haven't even realized are bad yet, but it doesn't make us bad people by today's standards. Most everyone, including the people of 15th century England were doing the best they could.
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2019-01-18, 02:22 PM (ISO 8601)
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2019-01-18, 03:02 PM (ISO 8601)
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Just because something was more normalized in the past doesnt mean that it was okay to do so. We tend to infantalize the people who came before us, but its pretty ridiculous to say "the people of that time just didnt understand that women werent property we can't judge them".
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2019-01-18, 03:19 PM (ISO 8601)
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2019-01-18, 03:47 PM (ISO 8601)
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No idea, as it's well beyond my own experience. Cultural expectation doubtless vary and inform such an approach.
It's not a novel idea.
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2019-01-18, 03:52 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
I imagine that Skull is only referring to the "sex-traffickers" thing and they assume the whole mass murder shtick is just hyperbole on TW's part.
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2019-01-18, 04:04 PM (ISO 8601)
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2019-01-18, 04:11 PM (ISO 8601)
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2019-01-18, 05:34 PM (ISO 8601)
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Re: OOTS #1151 - The Discussion Thread
Only if you read "and deserve it" into the moral; otherwise, it's a cautionary tale. "Kids, that could be you."
Actually, it's more likely they kept nightshade (aka belladonna, "beautiful woman") for a domestic use... For instance, small quantities of the extract was often used in a kind of impromptu eyedrop, to cause pupil dialation (making eyes appear to be bigger, and therefore "prettier", hence the name), as well as numerous other cosmetic applications. It's also a natural anesthetic (the Romans used it as such). It's also just pretty. Insisting that noble families had it only for its toxic properties strikes me as pointlessly cynical.Last edited by Ironsmith; 2019-01-18 at 06:25 PM.
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2019-01-18, 05:41 PM (ISO 8601)
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Why would Skull, or anyone, assume this-- and why, for that matter, would you-- given that The Weirdo has repeatedly and explicitly said this is what he really believes?
"Deserve's got nothing to do with it." If a tragedy makes you feel like the writer wrote the conclusion to morally judge the protagonist rather than as a plausible consequence of the protagonist's actions, that writer has failed.Last edited by Ruck; 2019-01-18 at 05:46 PM.
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2019-01-18, 06:18 PM (ISO 8601)
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Hey, I didn't say I assumed it's just hyperbole. As for why, well, I wouldn't blame anyone for believing TW is just being edgy on the internet, and since Skull only addressed the (in)adequacy of judging the distant past, without getting into anything else, I think it makes sense that they didn't take anything else seriously.
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2019-01-18, 08:00 PM (ISO 8601)
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It also bears mentioning that something has to be started before it can be normalized. That means that (insert example of normalized human inflicted tragedy) had to be created by people who weren’t normalized to it.
On the plus side, 500 years from now, when global warming has killed billions of people, people will defend us by saying we didn’t know any better. Even though we did.